The Thin Line Between Love and Hate: Lindsey and Stevie in Their Own Words

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With the long-awaited reissue of their Buckingham Nicks album, we’re recalling at rock’s most famous exes– the great, the bad, the blue-green colors flashin’

Everything began with “California Dreamin,'” and similar to in the tune, there was a church. Just it remained in the Bay Area, not New York, and nobody got on their knees and pretended to hope. Rather, a lot of teenagers collected there for a youth group social, where they ‘d play music on Wednesday nights. A dark-haired, blue-eyed junior from the close-by Menlo-Atherton High School took a seat at the piano and played the Mamas and the Papas’ 1965 counterculture anthem. When a blonde senior joined him for the consistencies– ending up being the Michelle Phillips to his John Phillips– they locked eyes. “I believed he was beloved,” she ‘d later on state.

Stevie Nicks and Lindsey Buckingham would not see each other for another 2 years, when she joined atrioventricular bundle, Fritz. A couple of years later on, they left to form the duo Buckingham Nicks, started dating, and got an invite to sign up with Fleetwood Mac, where they ended up being rock stars who never ever needed to take a look at another price. And though their relationship didn’t last, it led to a few of the best rock tunes ever discussed heartbreak and discomfort, classics that generation after generation continue to hold very much.

Now, 60 years after that very first conference, the frozen love has actually defrosted. Buckingham and Nicks are reissuing their extremely underrated 1973 self-titled album, which has actually run out print for years. In honor of its Sept. 19 release, we’re recalling at a few of the very best quotes through the years from rock’s most famous exes– the excellent, the bad, the blue-green colors flashin’. We’ll never ever break the chain.

1977– Stevie on the Breakup: ‘Try Working With Your Secretary’

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Buckingham and Nicks signed up with Fleetwood Mac in December 1974. The brand-new lineup provided a quick interview toWanderernot long after that, detailing the departure of guitar player Bob Welch, and talked with us once again after they launched 1975’s self-titledFleetwood Macalbum. With the release of 1977’sRumoursthey all ended up being super stars and arrived on the cover ofWandererJust one issue: Stevie and Lindsey had actually simply separated after 6 years together (as had John and Christine McVie).

Consulting With Cameron Crowe, Stevie detailed their relationship while in Fritz (” I believe there was constantly something in between me and Lindsey”) however stated that eventually, she could not be both the “old woman” and bandmate. “The finest description is: attempt dealing with your secretary … in a raucous workplace … and after that get home with her in the evening,” she stated. “See the length of time you might stand her. I might be no convenience to Lindsey when he required convenience.”

Stevie likewise informed Crowe she didn’t wish to hold anything back. “I do not care that everyone understands me and Chris and John and Lindsey and Mick all separated,” she stated. “Because we did. That’s reality. I simply do not desire individuals to get a publication and go, ‘Oh, another interview from Fleetwood Mac.’ If it’s fascinating, I’m not opposed to providing info.”

In case it wasn’t clear, she included thatRumourswas quite about that entire scenario. “On this album, all the tunes that I composed other than possibly ‘Gold Dust Woman’– and even that enters it– are certainly about individuals in the band,” she stated. “Chris’ relationships, John’s relationship, Mick’s relationship, Lindsey’s and mine. They’re all there and they’re really truthful and individuals will understand precisely what I’m discussing … individuals will truly take pleasure in listening to what took place considering that the last album.”

1977– Lindsey Is ‘Surprised We Lasted As Long As We Did’

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Like Stevie, Lindsey shared a comparable position on being open about their individual lives.” Just ’cause you’re in the general public eye does not suggest you do not go through the very same bullshit,” he informed Crowe in theRScover story. “It was a little lonesome there for a while. The idea of being on my own actually horrified me. Then I understood being alone is actually a cleaning thing … as I started to feel myself ending up being more myself once again. I’m shocked we lasted as long as we did.”

He continued: “I feel truly fortunate that I’ve had the chance to go through a few of the distress and shit we’ve been through the previous year. It’s had an extensive result on me. I feel a lot older, I seem like I’ve discovered a lot by handling a big obligation somewhat unaided. Remaining in this band truly screws up relationships with chicks. Given that Stevie, I have actually discovered that to be real. I might fulfill somebody that I actually like, have perhaps a couple of days to get it together which’s about it. The remainder of the time I’m too into Fleetwood Mac.”

1980– Stevie Stresses That She’s the One Who Ended Things

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In the band’s nextWanderercover story, Stevie spoke extremely of Lindsey’s contributions to her tunes.” I compose my tunes, however Lindsey puts the magic in, and there’s no chance … well, I might pay him 10 percent. I might approach him and thank him. If I were to play you a tune the method I composed it and offered it to them, and after that play you the method it is on the album, you would see what Lindsey did.”

When it came to “Go Your Own Way,” she made it clear who broke up with whom.” Now, I desire you to understand– that line about ‘shacking up ‘? I never ever shacked up withanybody when I was with him! Individuals will hear the tune and believe that!Iwas the one who broke up withhim… All he wished to do was drop off to sleep withthat guitar.

1982– Stevie Says Their Story Will Never End

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Speaking withMademoisellein August 1982, Stevie discussed her storied relationship with Lindsey.” We tangle a lot, however we like each other– we’ll constantly enjoy each other,” she stated. She then went on to essentially price estimate the now-legendaryRumoursB side” Silver Springs”: “He and I will never ever escape the truth that we were as one for a lot of years. “

1990– Stevie Says They Were ‘About as Compatible As a Boa Constrictor and a Rat’

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Following Lindsey’s departure from Fleetwood Mac in 1987, Stevie spoke toLady’s Ownpublication in 1990, upon the release of the band’s brand-new albumBehind the Mask” He and I had to do with as suitable as a boa constrictor and a rat,” she stated.” But we’ve had our last words. We will never ever have the ability to collaborate once again [or] even speak once again, which is really unfortunate. In any relationship you boil down to a point where you state things that you can never ever reclaim, and we’ve stated them. It breaks my heart. “

She raved how difficult it was for them to be in the exact same band. “Rich and well-known or starving and bad, we went through the very same issues,” she included. “He constantly desired me to himself, however someone needed to go out and make some cash. All he wished to do was play his music. When I got home I ‘d constantly get a small cold shoulder. He would not rather trust me about where I ‘d been or what I ‘d been doing. When we separated, 2 years after signing up with Fleetwood Mac, it resembled a living problem … Everything about me appeared to bug him. My laughter, the method I might handle a great deal of hard things, all made him wish to flinch. I altered when I was around him. I ended up being mouse-like and would never ever attempt use an idea.”

1992– Lindsey Says Stevie Was ‘Selected as the Star of the Band’

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In June 1992, Lindsey launchedOut of the Cradlehis very first solo release following his departure from Fleetwood Mac. Consulting withWandererhe reflected on his time with the band– and the stress he typically felt. “Fleetwood Mac was one huge lesson in adjustment for me,” he stated.” There were 5 extremely various characters, and I expect that made it fantastic for a while. Certainly, having 2 couples– and quickly enough, ex-couples– included a lot more stress and some excellent topic to the mix. The issues actually kicked in when you began including 5 supervisors and 5 legal representatives to the formula. When Stevie was singled out and picked as the star of the band, the equipment of the rock organization clicked in, and things truly got foolish. By the time ofTangoyou might barely fit all these individuals in one space for a band conference. It was a heartbreaking thing to enjoy, up until it ended up being practically funny.”

1994– Stevie Says ‘In His Mind, I Should Be Tortured and Killed’

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3 years far from reuniting with the completeRumourslineup, Stevie informedThe Island Earthat she and Lindsey’s relationship was nonexistent.” Basically, I believe Lindsey and I had actually sung our last tune,” she stated. “We had actually taken that relationship as far as it might go without among us eliminating the other. Plus, he had actually treated me so terribly for so long. I ‘d stroll into a space and he ‘d end up being the most ironical, undesirable guy on the face of the earth. I have overall regard for him [as an artist]I do not understand if he has any for me. He feels I separated our group. For that, in his mind, I need to be tortured for days and then eliminated.”

1994– Stevie: ‘I Just Bug Him to Death’

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While on trip for her 1994 solo albumStreet AngelStevie telephoned upWandererfor a Q&A, and confessed she had not spoken with Lindsey considering that the previous year, when they reunited for President Bill Clinton’s inauguration.” We’re truly not buddies, “she stated.” We’re truly nothing. We did not separate pals, and we have actually never ever been pals considering that. He is not actually able to have any sort of relationship with me. I simply bug him to death. Whatever I do is abrasive to him. He’s frightening when he gets mad.”

1997– Lindsey on Getting Back Together: ‘You Never Know’

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Upon reuniting in 1997, Fleetwood Mac appeared on the cover ofWandererthat fall. Lindsey discussed the long-lasting magic of” Silver Springs” (” There is no chance you can’t get drawn into completion of that tune”) and stated that while the band was back together, he and Stevie definitely weren’t– however you never ever understand. “I believe some individuals are most likely thinking that we are back together or something along those lines,” he stated. “Which is definitely not real. Not yet, anyhow. You never ever understand. I do not visualize that at all. You understand, things …”

1997– Stevie on Getting Back Together: ‘Over My Dead Body’

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Not so quickly, Lindsey. Because very sameRScover story, Stevie was inquired about her ex’s evident optimism about one day romantically reuniting. “Over my dead body, “she stated.” See, I do not wish to become part of that darkness. He understands that. When we’re up there singing tunes to each other, we most likely state more to each besides we ever would in reality. If you provided me an enthusiastic love affair and you used me a high-priestess function in a fantastic castle above a cliff where I can simply, like, live an extremely spiritual type of religious-library-communing-with-the-stars, discovering sort of presence, I’m going to choose the high priestess.”

She likewise showed toRSabout their relationship in the Seventies: “From ’71 through ’75, I coped with Lindsey all those years,” she stated. “We were definitely wed. In every method [but for the ring]I prepared, I cleaned up, I worked. I looked after him.”

She likewise revealed her continuous disappointment about “Go Your Own Way” and the “shacking up” line, 20 years after the tune’s release. “Every time those words would come out onstage, I wished to review and eliminate him. He understood it, so he truly pressed my buttons through that. It resembled, ‘I’ll make you suffer for leaving me.’ And I did. For many years.”

1998– Your Favorite Rock & & Roll Exes Are on Great Terms

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Following Fleetwood Mac’s reunion albumThe Danceand supporting trip, Stevie informedRSthat things were in fact quite fantastic in between her and Lindsey. “He and I are most likely much better good friends than we’ve remained in a long, very long time,” she stated. “We had some actually good talks and some good minutes that were sweet.”

2012– Stevie Says ‘It’s Never Not Going to Be Dramatic’

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Ahead of Fleetwood Mac’s 2013 world trip, Stevie and Lindsey offered a remarkable, exposing joint Q&A withWanderer( performed independently). Throughout her part, Stevie stated she and her ex were getting along simply great. “It was excellent hanging out with Linds,” she stated. “We’re old enough now that we’ve set our weapons. We began this entire thing in 1968 and we’re happy of what we’ve done. We look each other in a somewhat various light now. It’s an excellent light.”

She stated, the vulnerable circumstance will never ever be without a little drama. “Lindsey and I will constantly be significant,” she stated. “When you were nearly wed for 7 years, and after that you’ve remained in a band for 30 years, it’s never ever not going to be significant. We are who are and we were significant kids fitting. That never ever actually disappears.”

2012– Lindsey Says ‘Let’s Wait’ for a Buckingham Nicks Tour

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Throughout that very same joint Q&A (“Now that you’ve spoken to the 2 people, are you beginning to seem like a diminish?”asked Lindsey), there was much conversation about theBuckingham Nicksalbum, which will turn 40 at the time. Throughout Stevie’s interview– which occurred about a week before Lindsey’s– she exposed that they ‘d been speaking about honoring the anniversary by carrying out the album on trip, in between legs of Fleetwood Mac’s huge world trek.

Lindsey stated he was video game, however felt that doing so in 2013 would be a logistical headache. “Stevie, if you’re major about exploring behindBuckingham Nickslet’s wait,” he stated. “I’ve been stating to Stevie for many years that we ought to reviewBuckingham NicksI understand there’s a market for it … I believe something raised occurs with the 2 people and there’s an interest because … It’s a little an intangible. I’ve been stating that for years. To me, if you’re going to do it, do it correctly.”

2013– Lindsey Says There Are ‘New Chapters’ to Be Written

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Ahead of that Fleetwood Mac world trip in 2013, Lindsey providedWandereran upgrade on his relationship with Stevie.” It’s still progressing, which’s the appeal of it too,”he stated. “I’ve understood Stevie considering that high school. We were a couple for lots of, several years, and we’ve been a musical couple permanently. This time you would believe there was absolutely nothing left to find, absolutely nothing left to work out, no brand-new chapters to be composed. That is not the case– there are brand-new chapters to be composed. It’s rather amazing.”

2013– Lindsey Compares the Relationship to’Picking the Scab off an Open Wound Again and Again’

Noam Galai/Getty Images[19659060]Amidst the trip and the release of the four-song EPExtended PlayLindsey confessed toWandererit was challenging to get “total closure”after his separation with Stevie.”There was never ever at any time to not be together, “he stated. “It was type of like choosing the scab off an open injury once again and once again. That’s part of the tradition of the band. ‘Say Goodbye ‘is a really sweet tune, and it’s about her: ‘Once you stated farewell to me/Now I state farewell to you.’ It took a very long time. All those impressions have actually fallen away, however that does not suggest that there isn’t deal with and hope and belief in the future in a various context. That’s actually what the tune has to do with, and we end the set with simply the 2 people singing that tune.”

2015– Stevie Says They Used to Joke About Being Each Others’ Backups

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“Relations with Lindsey are precisely as they have actually been because we separated,”Stevie informedRSin her 2015 cover story.” He and I will constantly be annoying to each other, and we will constantly do things that will aggravate each other, and we actually understand how to press each other’s buttons. We understand precisely what to state when we truly wish to toss a dagger in. And I believe that that’s not various now than it was when we were 20. And I do not believe it will be various when we’re 80.”

She likewise exposed that for years, they joked about being each other’s backups.” Because we started so young together, both Lindsey and I would constantly laughingly state– which we both understood was never ever going to take place– that, like, when we were 90, and everyone else was dead, possibly we would wind up together in a seniors’ home, since of what we had actually gone through, simply him and me, for a long, long, long period of time. When his very first kid was coming, I believe we were strolling in an airport, and I stated, ‘Well, I think we’re never ever going to get to that old folks’ home.’ And he’s like, ‘Yeah, I think we never ever are.’ It was something that we stated in kind of a poignant method.”

2018– Stevie Says She Wants Her Next Decade to Be ‘Fun and Happy’

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Following Lindsey’s 2018 shooting from Fleetwood Mac– and the band’s addition of Crowded House’s Neil Finn and Mike Campbell of Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers to change him– Stevie spoke withWandererabout what she desired her future to appear like.” Our relationship has actually constantly been unpredictable,” she stated. “We were never ever wed, however we may too have actually been. Some couples get separated after 40 years. They break their kids’ hearts and damage everybody around them due to the fact that it’s simply hard. This is unfortunate for me, however I desire the next 10 years of my life to be truly enjoyable and delighted. I wish to get up every day and dance around my house and smile and state, ‘Thank God for this fantastic life.'”

2018– Lindsey Says ‘This Is Not the Way You End Something Like This’

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That fall, Buckingham opened toWandererabout his departure from the band.” Am I sad about refraining from doing another trip with Fleetwood Mac? No,”he stated.”Because I can see that there are numerous other locations to check out. [But] the something that does trouble me and breaks my heart is we invested 43 years constantly discovering a method to increase above our individual distinctions and our troubles to pursue and articulate a greater fact. That is our tradition. That is what the tunes have to do with. This is not the method you end something like this.”

2021– Lindsey Compares Stevie and the Band to ‘Trump and the Republicans’

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In 2021, Lindsey launched a self-titled solo album and exposed more about his shooting from Fleetwood Mac. “We’ve all had our ups and down, however we constantly put the band’s tradition initially,” he informedWanderer“But what this did was dishonor the tradition that we developed. “Unsurprisingly, he took goal at Stevie:”I believe others in the band simply felt that they were not empowered enough, separately, for whatever their own factors, to defend what was right,” he stated. “And so, it ended up being a bit like Trump and the Republicans.”

2021– Stevie Says She Did Not Demand Lindsey’s Firing: ‘Frankly, I Fired Myself’

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Before releasing that 2021interview with Lindsey,Wandererconnected to Stevie for remark. His remarks about his choice to have kids later on in life–“It definitely wasn’t lost on her that, although I waited till I was 48 to have my very first kid, I did get in under the wire”– drew an action from Stevie, who stated that while she’s “delighted” he had kids, she “wasn’t interested” in following that course. “Those are my choices that I get to produce myself,” she stated. “I’m happy of the life options I’ve made, and it appears an embarassment for him to pass judgment on anybody who decides to live their life by themselves terms, even if it looks in a different way from what his life options have actually been.”

She likewise offered her own rather various side of the story on Lindsey’s shooting from the band. “It’s regrettable that Lindsey has actually picked to inform a revisionist history of what taken place in 2018 with Fleetwood Mac,” she composed. “His variation of occasions is factually unreliable, and while I’ve never ever spoken openly on the matter, choosing to not air unclean laundry, definitely it feels the time has actually concerned shine a light on the fact. Following an extremely challenging time with Lindsey at MusiCares in New York, in 2018, I chose for myself that I was no longer ready to deal with him. I might openly review the numerous reasons, and maybe I will do that at some point in a narrative, however suffice it to state we might begin in 1968 and develop to 2018 with a list of really accurate reasons that I will not deal with him. To be exceptionally clear, I did not have him fired, I did not request him to be fired, I did not require he be fired. Honestly, I fired myself. I proactively eliminated myself from the band and a circumstance I thought about to be hazardous to my wellness. I was done. If the band went on without me, so be it.”

2023– Lindsey Says He Was Writing Songs About Stevie ‘Not That Long Ago’

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In a discussion with Omar Apollo forWanderer‘s Musicians on Musicians series, Lindsey stated it wasn’t too long ago that he was composing tunes about his well-known ex and previous bandmate.”I was still composing tunes sometimes about Stevie, not that long back, however the majority of the tunes in the last 20 years have actually had to do with my partner,”he stated.

2023– Lindsey Says He’s’ Always Been Ready ‘to Return to the Mac

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Because very same discussion with Apollo, Lindsey stated he was all set to go back to atrioventricular bundle, even without the late keyboardist and vocalist Christine McVie, who passed away in November 2022.”I constantly have actually been all set to come back if the chance emerged, “he stated. “We might still do it now, even without Christine. The only method that would occur is if Stevie stated she desired to do it. She ‘d need to have some type of a surprise, and I do not always see that taking place. I believe that ending on the correct note would be a much better method to do it than the method it has actually been left. “

2024– Stevie Says She Gave Lindsey ‘More than 300 Million Chances’

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In a comprehensive Rolling Stone Interview with Stevie in October 2024, she showed even more on that unfortunate MusiCares advantage show that led to Lindsey’s shooting. “That’s when he wasn’t extremely good to anyone; he wasn’t extremely great to Harry Styles,” she stated. “I could hear my mother stating, ‘Are you truly going to invest the next 15 years of your life with this male?’ I might hear my extremely practical daddy– and by the method, my mother and father liked Lindsey a lot– stating, ‘It’s time for you guys to get a divorce.’ In between those 2, I stated, ‘I’m done.'”

Stevie likewise stated she would not think about a correct goodbye trip, and detailed the last time she saw Lindsey, stating it occurred at an event of life for Christine McVie held at Nobu in L.A. “The only time I’ve spoken with Lindsey existed, for about 3 minutes. I handled Lindsey for as long as I could. You might not state that I did not provide him more than 300 million possibilities … I want him the very best. I hope he lives a long life and continues to enter into a studio and deal with other individuals. He’s likewise an icon, and he can teach individuals. He’s not dropped in his tracks. He can still make music and have a good time.”

From Wanderer United States.